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Welcome Nan Reinhardt!

10/24/2013

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 I'd like to extend a big welcome to author Nan Reinhardt.                             
Nan writes romance novels about women who are in their prime. She firmly believes you're never too old to experience the joy and passion of love. I agree!



                                  Note to Self

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. — Anais Nin, US (French-born) author & diarist (1903 – 1977)

Suddenly, I thought, “This is my body. I live in it. I play in it. I can’t deny it anymore. This is my fat body. I’m standing at the corner of Life and You Better Get Going. I stepped off the curb and never looked back. — Camryn Manheim, American actress (1961–)

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 I am very body aware, and I’ve spent way too much time in my life fretting over other people’s opinions about my body. I’m overweight and for years, I was on a diet. For about thirty years or so, I completely ignored my sensual side. Maybe unconsciously (but probably consciously), I believed that a big woman had no business trying to be sensual. I know, it’s sick, but there it is.

I have to admit, I was much more aware of my sensuality when I was younger (and thinner), but being so young meant I was unable to really appreciate that aspect of my femininity. Instead, I wallowed in guilt because good girls didn’t acknowledge or act on those kinds of feelings, and besides, I had no idea how to separate sensuality from stupid teenaged libido. I married young, got bigger, and my sensuality truly went into hiding in the midst of pregnancies, mothering, and the day-to-day trials of marriage and having a family. All you Baby Boomer women know exactly what I mean, right?

But when I began to manifest menopause symptoms—hot flashes, night sweats, short-term memory loss, moods swings, restlessness—something else very surprising happened to me. One summer day, I actually stopped and looked at myself after a shower—something I’d never done before. I’d always ignored mirrors as much as possible since the woman reflected there wasn’t even close to America’s skinny ideal. I gazed at the round woman in the glass—flushed from the shower, her blonde hair damp and tousled, her blue eyes sparkling, and I had an epiphany. I’m pretty. And curvy. And actually, kinda sexy.

That day something opened up in me and since then all my senses seem to be heightened. I’m hyper-aware of how things taste, like juicy fresh pears or red wine and chocolate; of how light and shadow play on surfaces; how music sounds; how much I enjoy the touch of strong male fingers on my skin. I love the sun on my face or a breeze in my hair. I love putting on lotion—it’s a minutes-long stroking experience now, instead of a slap-dash rub and hurrying into my baggy pants and top to cover up. I love wearing clothes that are silky or soft rather than sweats, clothes that reveal and enhance my shape instead of hide it. I even started sleeping nude just for the touch of the cool sheets against my skin and the feel of a warm body next to mine.

I’ve discovered my sensuality again. But this time, I’m older and aware of how very brief a time we have on this Earth, in this body—my body. My round, bumpy, beautiful . . . sexy body.

Note to self–you are a delight exactly as you are!

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Nan Reinhardt is a writer of romantic fiction for women in their prime. Yeah, women still fall in love and have sex, even after 45! Imagine! She is also a wife, a mom, a mother-in-law, and a grandmother. She’s been an antiques dealer, a bank teller, a stay-at-home mom, a secretary, and for the last 17 years, she’s earned her living as a freelance copyeditor and proofreader.

But writing is Nan’s first and most enduring passion. She can’t remember a time in her life when she wasn’t writing—she wrote her first romance novel at the age of ten, a love story between the most sophisticated person she knew at the time, her older sister (who was in high school and had a driver’s license!) and a member of Herman’s Hermits. If you remember who they are, you are Nan’s audience! She’s still writing romance, but now from the viewpoint of a wiser, slightly rumpled, menopausal woman who believes that love never ages, women only grow more interesting, and everybody needs a little sexy romance.

Her first novel Rule Number One is available at Amazon.com and Barnes&Noble.com. The other two, Once More From the Top and Sex and the Widow Miles — the first novels in the Women of Willow Bay series, are available exclusively at Amazon.

Visit Nan’s website: www.nanreinhardt.com 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authornanreinhardt 
Twitter: @NanReinhardt 
Talk to Nan at: nanleigh1@gmail.com



12 Comments
Liz Flaherty link
10/23/2013 11:00:20 pm

Great one, Nan!

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Nan link
10/24/2013 12:08:44 am

Thank you, Liz! So glad you came by!

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Kristen link
10/23/2013 11:43:40 pm

This is beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for writing it!

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Nan link
10/24/2013 12:10:59 am

Thanks, Kristen. Sometimes, it's important to acknowledge our own sensuality because if we lose that, we lose some intrinsic part of ourselves. Happy you stopped by!

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robena grant link
10/24/2013 01:33:28 am

Hey, Nan. Great post. I think it's fabulous to be a "woman of a certain age" where we can relax and just enjoy. We're no longer slaves to the fashion industry. We know what works for us and what doesn't. We become more playful and happy in our own skin. The wrinkles we could do without, but we just rearrange, add to them and call them laugh lines. ; )

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Nan link
10/24/2013 02:13:52 am

Hey Roben, you are so right! I love who I am right now and I'm having the time of my life. It's all good! Thanks for coming by!

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Mara Jacobs link
10/24/2013 03:40:27 am

Great post, Nan. Could relate on several levels. Even more so with menopause just around the corner.

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Nan link
10/24/2013 04:39:31 am

Hey, Mara! Yeah, menopause has been eye-opening on so many levels, and I've been a damn poster child for all the symptoms. Name it and I've had it, but the restlessness has been the worst. Get ready, baby!

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Melissa Keir link
10/24/2013 08:49:13 am

Thanks for your inspirational post. I'm 47 and feeling my age. I've also worried about my weight all my life and couldn't handle feeling fat. Just last year, I did a boudoir photo shoot and know that I'm sexy now. Empowering!

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Nan link
10/24/2013 01:45:49 pm

Melissa, what a cool way to claim your sensuality! Good for you! Thanks for coming by!

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I loved Nan's thoughts!! After an evening with an assorted group of wonderful, various-aged women, Nan's comments are right on the money!! Self-acceptance and fun should be the main goals of the "Second Half"!!! Ann Mooney
10/24/2013 02:03:49 pm

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Nan link
10/24/2013 09:51:02 pm

Ann, you are so right! Self-acceptance makes any age fun, but especially if you've spent the first half feeling back about yourself. Thanks!!

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